Thursday, June 30, 2011

Bangkok 29/06/11-01/07/11

The flight to Bangkok wasn't terrible at all. In fact, at the Malaysia airport while waiting in line at immigration a man taped me on the shoulder and told me that I had a sticker on my back. His accent was familair. Turns out he was from Ohio on an amazing business trip. 13 countries in 2 weeks. He stayed by me and insisted on buying me breakfast. I felt weird so I declined but he insisted that he really didn't mind and expected nothing in return other than just someone to chat to. So over breakfast he told me how he worked his ass off to get to a successful as he is now. He grew up in a poor family from West Virgina and went to night class while working 3 jobs. I told him that I have to work my ass off too and told him everything I do. He said I am on the right track and wished his kids would be that way, although from the sounds of it, they seem to be pretty successful too. Finally it was time to board the plane which was delayed due to rainy weather. The flight was only an hour and a half. Immigration was easy when we got there and I took a cab into Bangkok. I was too hot and tired to do the cheaper option which was the train. 200 BHT wasn't bad at all though.

I arrived to my lovely hotel in China Town: Shanghai Mansion about 45 minutes later. It was even dreamier than the photos online portrayed it. It smelled heavenly: like lemongrass and green tea.  My room was purpple with chinese style furniture, my bathroom was green and purple with hanging lanterns and a bird cage hanging above the shower. I had a flat screen tv and a lovely makeup table and mirror. The bed: massive! with silk sheets and pillows. I think I pay about 80 US for the two nights here. Amazing. There was a reading library on my floor, a delicious restaurant called Cotton which I ate delicious Thai food at every night. There is a gorgeous winding Titiantic looking staircase when you first walk in the first floor with chandeliers. There is also a water garden filled with gold fish and hanging lanterns on the highest building above.



The first day I decided to see the temples. So I took a tuk-tuk to the Grand Palace before it closed at 3:30. It was so hot but out of respect everyone had to wear long pants and covered shoulders. It was worth the sweating. Countless gorgeous temples around the Grand Palace. With gold and little pieces of shiny coloured glass. It boggled my mind how these things were built way before our times. After exploring I took a walk across the street and explored the pier markets. Countless types of food were everywhere. Some smelled delicious and others smelled foul. Whole fish (skin and bones) were fried and set out in a pan for those brave enough to buy them. I saw a few monks in their orange garb walking through. I followed the markets onto the street where there were countless tables selling food, buddas and even dentures!







I began walking towards another temple that I wanted to see and got stopped by a thai man who was trying to sell me a boat trip to another temple. I told him no but a younger thai boy said he would drive me to the temple i was walking to for 10BHT. which was nothing. I agreed. The boy was so nice and asking lots of questions but when we ended up at a pier with boats I scolded and said that that was not what I wanted. So he took me to the temple and didn't make me pay a dime.

This temple housed  a giant Budda! so big that it had to lay on its side! I met a nice Swedish couple who were planning to come to Australia to live and work for a bit so I talked to them for a while and gave them advice on where to go. Then I left and I was famished. So I went to a little Thai cafe and ate delicious veggies in an oyster and soy sauce with coconut rice. Then I made my way back to the hotel.
Today, I was woken by a phone call from the front desk that the tour I had booked arrived early. I scrambled to get everything together and went downstairs to meet a nice Thai man with grey hair who somewhat resembled my family doctor. I found it strange at first when we got into a taxi instead of a bus but he explained that we were meeting with the others because my hotel was not near theirs. We waited at a traffic station, in which the guide: Thong,,suggested I sit inside to avoid the heat. So I sat inside this little station or tower with the traffic controler who didn't speak but kept cleaning his toilet in the back room. I watched Thai tv and remained patient. The rest of the tour eventually arrived and we drove two hours to the war cemetary and war museum which housed history and the remains of those prisioners from WWII that were taken by the Japanese to build a railroad from Bangkok to Burma. Then we took a boat through the shanty towns on the water and ended up at one of the famous bridges built by the soildiers. It was incredibly hot walking across that bridge. Then we continued driving along a dirt road in the middle of nowhere with beautiful scenery. Thong and I got out of the van while the others continued on to the Tiger Temple. I was the only one who planned to do elephant riding. There we were in the middle of nowhere waiting for the famous train that runs over the 'Bridge of Death' (another one built by the prisoners of war...I think you could assume why it got its name) which runs over River Kwai. Thong said we had a half hour and told me to follow him and to give him my camera and he'll take nice photos. He took nice photos of me since the tour began. So he took countless photos of me walking over the train tracks and then it came time to walk over the bridge. I started to but then I felt funny about it especially because the wood was wobbly. So Thong said ok and continued to take photos on the walk back. We sat waiting for the train and met some monks who were walking along the tracks. Then I followed Thong down by the river where he got emotional and told me it is his dream to live there. A small cabin and a horse, that is all he needs. Then he started doing yoga and breathing exercises. I told him that I had done yoga and he taught me a new breathing exercise in which you breath in and lift your arms and when you breath out you throw your arms back. So we did that for a while and took photos of each of us doing those exercises. Finally the train came and we hopped on. Thong took more photos of me hanging my head outside the window, inside the cabin, by the door..it never ended. Then we got to our stop and walked through a bit of jungle to a buffet where we would eat lunch. It was delicious and there were some other tourists there, mostly Aussie. The fried bananas were my absolute favourite!






After lunch we went on to the elephant camp where I rode my elephant through the jungle. Amazing experience and thankfully the elephant was treated better than I thought. Afterwards, we picked up the others and made our 3 hour trip back to Bangkok. We were dropped off at a hotel and said goodbye to our new friends. Then we each hopped into our appointed shuttles that would take us back to the hotel. Thong told me to wait and wrote down the name of the breathing exercise book in Thai and told me to take it into a book store and they will know and if not to call him and wrote his number. He gave me a massive hug and said a prayer and wished me 'health and happiness for a beautiful girl' several times and was still waving to me as the shuttle drove away.



These are the experiences that I live for.

Anyway, I am writing this update when I have a few hours to sleep before I fly to Vietnam!

Thailand I loved you and your beauty and your people. I will be back!

photos will be up as soon as I can upload them. this internet access won't let me.


Music: every teardrop is a waterfall- coldplay

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

28/06/2011 Kaula Lumpur, Malaysia

I had no expectations for this trip when I boarded the plane on Monday night. I had an idea of where I wanted to go in KL and Bangkok but decided to just go with the flow. I grumbled to myself as I forgot to request a window seat and had to sit in the middle aisle. However, everything turned around once a nice Finnish guy sat next to me. He began talking to me and all I wanted was sleep but he was funny so I let him go. Turns out he went to Griffith Uni as well, but just for a semester and was on his way back to Finland. He was staying in KL for a few days. I eventually fell asleep and suddenly it was eight hours later and we were in Malaysia! After going through customs it became apparent that the Finnish guy Peter and I were going to stick together which was fine with me. Traveling to another country, an Asian one no less, and being by yourself are kind of overwhelming and I felt protected since he was a guy and had been to KL before. We met this man who looked like Borat's accomplice on the way to the train and he told us that he flew to KL because he knew he will meet his wife there. We'll see.

Peter and I decided against the train and took the bus instead. Way cheaper but definately not a choice I would have made if I was by myself. Dodgy characters on there and it was a very long drive. Eventually, I got to my hostel the Anjung Hotel and dropped my luggage off. Then we went to Peter's and did the same. We had lunch in Chinatown and then took a taxi to the Batu Caves. This place was unbelievable. The caves looked fake, there were so many stairs to climb and so many beautiful temples in these caves. I am so happy we got to go there. Of course, there were monkeys everywhere as well. It's not a successful day in my opinion without them.





After feeling completely exhausted, Peter and I decided to go our seperate ways and freshen up and nap. Then we would meet at the Petronas Towers. When it was time to meet I grew worried because it took ages to get there because I kept going the wrong way on the monorail. Eventually I made it and the towers were incredible in person. There was one problem though: there were a few front entrances. I searched for Peter for an hour and was about to give up. It would be terrible to spend an entire day with someone and become good friends and then not say goodbye. Lukily the fountain show began on the lake behind the towers and I stayed to watch and photograph it. Then I finally saw Peter. We both sighed relief. We decided to get dinner and went inside the towers which was a whole crazy circular bustling world in itself. Our conversation continued to get deep talking about everything from politics, religion and relationships..both trying really hard to give advice on life. I learned so much from him and he learned so much from me. There is a girl back in Finland he was struggling with but in the end he decided to listen to my advice and is going to try to make it work when he is back. YEW. I think I will follow his advice too. After dinner we went outside to photograph the Petronas in their night time glory. Pictures cannot capture them and unfortunately the power decided to go out for a little bit (Asian blackouts). After the lights returned and a few more photos were taken it was time to head back to the hotel for much needed sleep. I felt like I hadn't slept in days. Peter and I said goodbye and exchanged emails. Then I trudged off to sleep in my uncomfrotable hard bed. However, there was acoustic guitar playing underneath my window and that helped me to drift off to a blissful sleep.





Moral of the story for this day was that traveling solo provides you the opportunity to meet amazing people. I find it incredible that you could meet a perfect stranger and you both talk about things that it is hard to talk about with other people, have an amazingly fun day and then you never ever see each other again. All you have is that experience to hold on to and that experience is certainly of value. We have to be open these experiences in our lives and let people in. They just might teach us a thing or two.

Thoughts about KL: clean in some spots, dirty in others. Very easy to figure out. Transport was amazing. People were friendly. The usual cost of a taxi was around 10-20 Ringits. Truly displays capitalism with the Petronas Towers. Batu caves are a must. KL airport is one of the best I have ever been in. HOT. near the equator. Need lots of water all of the time. Over all it was a lot better than what other people have told me.

Next stop: Bangkok

Current music: City and Colour- The Girl

Introduction to the Journey

Balance. It is all about balance. In this chaotic world it is hard to stay balanced. One of the most important things that I have discovered is that in order to have balance you must understand yourself by making time for yourself. Me time is extremely important and sometimes we need to do a little exploring by ourselves to really discover who we are.

A few things prompted my decision for a big Asia trip. I have always had the urge to go to Vietnam. I was supposed to go with friends and when they could no longer go I refused to wait any longer and decided to just go by myself. I wanted the true backpacker lone traveler experience. I was still recovering from an awful year from 2010 and I thought that this trip was well deserved and that soul searching was completely needed.

I booked the trip back in February 2011 as a spur of the moment decision. I was looking into it and then I called the program that I got my TEFL and am teaching english through: I-to-I and it so happened it was the last day for a big sale they were having and it saved me heaps on my booking. Then I decided to stopover in Kaula Lumpur, Malaysia (spur of the moment decision..just had the urge to go there. and I also decided to stop in Bangkok, Thaliand (mainly for the temples and the Thai food).

It was a crazy semester of managing school, work, completeing my TEFL certificate and trip preparations and before I knew it, it was time to fly out and begin my journey!